Theres a very bright light at the end of the tunnel.

I made a thread a few weeks ago about my recovery approaching 6 weeks ( http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/coming-up-on-6-months-clean.42897/#post-288423 ). It seems from then and now my recovery has gotten 10x better.

I finally met a beautiful young lady not too long ago. Shes fantastic. And for the first time in months/ years I'm entering into a healthy relationship where I'm actually set up for success. I'm emotionally sound, sexually "reset", confident, and really eel I have a lot to offer. In fact, we both do.

But the biggest improvement which I can guarantee, which is why I joined this community, was no P induced ED. It was the most glorious sight I've ever seen, and needless to say I am FUCKING STOKED that this will no longer be an issue for me, or atleast I have made significant improvements in that area...

Here's what I want to say to the newbies, everyone needing encouragement.

THE REBOOT WORKS.

Yes it takes discipline. Yes its difficult. Yes it may take a long time.

But NEVER let any of these things become obstacles for you. The 6 months I've put into this reboot is NOTHING compared to the rest of my life. I want to have a successful marriage. I want to be healthy sexually. I WANT TO BE HEALTHY!

Put your damn foot down. Get focused. Get motivated. Get this shit done. Because i'm here to tell you fellas. I had little hope I would recover and live a normal life. Ill be honest. But I believed in the reboot process. And here I am sitting at "the end of the tunnel" screaming KEEP YOUR HEAD UP. IT GETS BETTER.

The reboot was my only hope to have a normal sexual life. And the experiences Ive had with this girl are not only emotionally rich and deep, but convinced me that P is the dumbest, shallowest, stupident waste of time in the whole universe. The real thing is so much more undeniable better for so many reasons I would never even imagine going back to P.

I want everyone in this community to get to where I am now. I'm here for everyone who needs help, motivation, advice, anything. I want to help you. I want to eliminate P addiction.

Get it moving brothers. There's light at the end of the tunnel.

 

@Alyosha

Initially, I had a group on this site that i checked in with everyday. We had rituals we did, such as working out everyday, taking a cold shower everyday etc. and that was the biggest key to my first reboot. I was hitting the gym hard and I think honestly that was on of the biggest things as well. It just made me feel more "manly".

On my second reboot, I was much more focused on the consequences of relapse. I HATE feeling foggy brained, disconnected, socially anxious, not smooth with girls etc. I knew the man who I wanted to be and these things were the opposite of that man. That's what drove me in the second reboot, having a clear picture of who I wanted to be.

With these being said, one must be disciplined if he is going to reboot successfully. There is no way around that.

I have been around the reboot block, so let me know if you need any other tips or help!

 

I appreciate everyone's replies on here.

You SHOULD be stoked. The rewards are plentiful and available to everyone on here if you can find the discipline to seek them.

I'm not a magic man, or any better or worse than any one on this site. everyone can do this. its FUCKING HARD. but not impossible. Im glad I can motivate and inspire some of you. Im always open to PM's if anyone is lost in the struggle and needs help

Cheers