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Any suggestions for healing "death grip syndrome" ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Lazarus Shuttlesworth, Sep 13, 2015.

  1. Pirlo23

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    Don't apologize, death grip is a serious problem that causes delayed ejaculation and can ruin your sex life. It's an issue which deserves to be discussed.
     
  2. Booster

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    I thought this thread was ace, People have suffered from PIED and the death grip symptoms for decades because of closed minded people who didn't want to think outside the box or believe they were a thing.
    If we cant discuss the symptoms of Porn and masturbation and ideas we can do to help it without being shot down then this site then becomes the very thing that it was trying to fight against.
     
  3. mirko

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    I just arrived on this website, i think i have death grip , in italy nobody know this thing, i never cum with blowjob or with sex i can cum only with my hand, i tryed a lot of thing, integration,i bought a fleshlight and ii stop mastrubation by hand, i was able to get cum but when i had sex with a true woman i didn't feel anything, i m searching experience about death grip of other people, sex without cum is not sex is a boring thing and couple life could be at the end
     
  4. ae123

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    Thankfully, you'd be happy to realize that the cure to deathgrip syndrome goes hand in hand with NoFap in general. Just stop PMO'ing and masturbating. If you've ever done NoFap and relapsed (relapse sucks but can actually be used to make a valuable point here), you'd know that after literally like a week of not fapping, you could literally orgasm just by freakin poking at your junk because your nerves and skin would've had time to recover from fapping too many times.
     
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  5. mirko

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    I decide to stop everything like masturbation , flashlight i will touch my dick only for pie, but if after a period of90 days no fap i will no be able to get cum houd ihave cum with my hand? i think could be unhealthy don't have a cum for long period
     
  6. sirfapstinence

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    No its not unhealthy. If you're seriously looking to reboot and get the sensation back just don't touch yourself. At least for 90 days. It will take time and patience. Definitely no easy answer or quick fix solution for this. All the best
     
  7. mirko

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    i am agree but after my period of 90 days could be unhealthy don't masturbate, what's your plane if after 90 days you didn't cum?
     
  8. scjguy

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    Well, I read the "official" death grip cure website yesterday, and according to them, as part of the treatment, you should try to masturbate very gently, with lots of lube, after one week without M, but only to a natural, spontaneous erection.

    I'm at 17 days of no PMO and masturbated as soon as I woke up with a boner, precisely as the website indicated. Lots of lube, and very slow and gentle touching, fantasing about my previous sex experiences rather than any porn/story. It was a great orgasm! Now, I'll abstain from it for some more weeks and see where this takes me.
     
  9. Star Lord

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  10. scjguy

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    Funny you mentioned it. I'm right handed but spent my entire life using the left hand to masturbate, since I'd be using the right hand on the mouse for clicking. For this reason, in recovering from death grip, I plan on using the right hand.
     
  11. mirko

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    m at 39 day no masturbated and porno i have boner at 20 days almost every morning , now i have boner sometimes
     
  12. Panadero23

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    Well today i overcome death grip, from the moment i knew i had it, i started reading guides about how to cure it, believe me i read all forums and guides, well now. My solution started following this guide.
    1. curedeathgrip put it on google and is the first page i did all except the flashlight part. With that i was able to cum after a quick hand job and then like 20 mins of sex and not always worked... So. It was something but didn't work

    2. No masturbation at all, just a lot!!! Of sex for 3 months. it's actually very easy to charm a girl if u can make her have 3 orgasms - > rarely i could cum like after 20 mins maybe 15 mins, but no hand job, only sex and not always worked so... Didn't work

    3. Stop masturbate for 1 month, no sex, nothing and after 1 month i bought a cheap pocket pussy that made me cum like in 1 minute, after using it 2 times last week. Today 2 girls called me to do a thresome, idk if it was the fact that there were 2 girls or maybe the girl i was fucking first had the best pussy in the world but no numb nerves this time, just pleasure. similar to the pocket pussy actually. and i accomplished to cum in 3 minutes hahaha those girls were super disappointed and i was super happy . I guess now its time to REALLY learn how to last longer . How ironic

    So my conclusion guys is stop masturbation buy the cheapest pocket pussy and use it 2 times a week, use it till u cum in no time, and then chek again if death grip is over. Let me Know if it work for you as well, death grip is just numb nerves so with dedication and a good plan u can defeat it. good luck guys.
     
  13. bulmalovesdota

    bulmalovesdota Fapstronaut

    what is the pocket pussy?
     
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  14. Nine0747

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    Good morning.

    I'm struggling with curing death grip..
    I can have sex no problems but I've never been able to ejaculate with foreplay.

    I'm tried the 4 week plan with no success.

    I'm going to try the 90 days.
    However, does the cure work if my partner does the masturbating after the 90days or do I need to retrain my brain by me masturbating after the 90 days.

    I'd rather she did it and I stayed away.

    I don't want to go 90s and mess it up.

    Thanks
     
  15. UnitedWeStand

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    Just dont M. It will surely be cured by itself. day 250 and still improves
     
  16. The_Inevitable

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    Hey bro how are u doing now from the death grip, I think I have it.
     
  17. Di.Do.555

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    Stop touching it - it is not your's and it never was.
    It belongs to your partner.
    The brain is always rewiring itself. Keep going.
     
  18. Di.Do.555

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    LOL - we were lucky to be born b4 the invention of the internet.
     
  19. OffCartman

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    Like many of you, too many P*rnHub sessions had me suffering from Death Grip Syndrome after awhile, and it started affecting my real life as well. Thankfully, I came across a number of articles like this one (https://www.guysgab.com/how-to-cure-death-grip-syndrome/) which got me back on the road to recovery and ultimately "cured" me of my affliction.

    Unfortunately, with me being quarantined since March while not in a relationship, I've gone back to my old ways, spending days looking at way too much porn, and I'm now starting to recognize those tell-tale signs (not to mention some painful chaffing) again. So it looks like it's time for me to go NoFap again and get back on track. Thankfully, I've found a good group of guys here to help keep me accountable.

    Good luck everyone!
     
  20. thommyantalya

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    so, I can relate to the words of each one of you, guys. I do have death grip. Never cum with sex with a woman, just HJ and BJ. I messed up my most important relationship. I'm not really addicted to porn, but to masturbation. Even doing prone masturbation for many years when younger. I wired my brain to orgasm just solo. I've always felt like sex was amazing but it wasn't enough to orgasm. I think the only way to cure it it's go hard more 90 days or even 180/200 if your death grip caused serious DE like mine. I don't even know if I can fix it, but it's worth trying and anyway I wanna give up masturbation for a long time, most likely for good. Know it's difficult but I wanna be the boss of my body and re-wire my brain. I've already tried a 90 day streak, but I made it to 65 days. I was frustrated because I had sex but orgasmed just with her hand. That, along with chaser effect, put an end to my effort to give up masturbation. But now I am more aware, more determined. If I can't orgasm with sex, I'll give up masturbation anyway. I don't say it's not healthy for anyone, just for me it's not.

    Good luck to everyone, guys!
     

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