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***The Kindness Challenge***

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by BushidoWarrior, Nov 17, 2015.

  1. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Barej ~ That's the way @Barej. Never give up; never surrender. Carpe diem!
    2. @bearbones ~ Sometimes you have to choose between what is right and what is easy comrade. It can feel insurmountable sometimes, but just remember: you aren't alone in your struggles. Solidarity.
     
  2. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Failure_Is_Not_An_Option ~ You're doing great my man! Keep up the awesome work and you will become an upstoppable machine that others look up to. Live your dreams and never give up. There is a day waiting to be seized!
    2. @Amir Mcm. ~ You've got it brother. You're on your way to crushing this day. Act in the way that you'd want to be remembered for, and you can't go wrong. Live to win comrade!
     
  3. Brasileiro

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    I did the easy one, with @kaylee time because i think she's cute and it's nice to talk to her :)
     
  4. MrCharacter

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    @Sayin'SwearsIsFun - Thank you for the inspiring message and keep up your helpful advice.
    @BushidoWarrior - Great threads, amazing fapstronaut and well done, 15 days no PMO.
     
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  5. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Yugae ~ Well done comrade. You should be very proud of yourself!
    2. @Earl Sweatshirt ~ Well done comrade. You've got this. Seize the day!
     
  6. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @schimo ~ Hope will come comrade. Don't worry. Even the darkest of dark periods has an expiry date. be kind to yourself; to relapse is to be human. If this were easy, then there would be no need for this website. Rise, and begin again in the moment. Act in the way that you wish to be remembered and you can't go wrong.
    2. @Shaunmac997 ~ That's the way. You've got it man. You're doing fantastic. Setting yourself these challenges will urge you to new heights you never thought possible. You can and will reach your dreams. Seize the day and never lose your hunger to win comrade.
    3. @JoshZissou ~ Good goal man. I like it. You're stepping up and committing. That makes you a true fapstronaut. I know you'll achieve this one. Be powerful and merciless, and never forget why you started. CARPE DIEM!
     
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    dude you are a really cool guy, i will also participate in this thread. very good indeed, we need more of this in our world..... i so want to fap right naw!!!
     
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  8. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @swagnarock ~ This is great comrade! You've found a way of Rebooting that doesn't work. You're a wiser person because of it. Now, rise and begin again in this moment. Your time is now. GO!
    2. @Zachary R Hammond ~ You've got it brother. You've made a very wise decision. If you need a hand, or advice, feel free to PM me or anybody else here. We are a very supportive community.
    3. @Failure_Is_Not_An_Option ~ Fist bump to you. You've earned it!
     
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  9. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @David Adams ~ You are a fapstronaut now. Welcome to the movement comrade. Here you will find a very supportive community of people who share your struggle and help you become the person you want to be. Here's to victory for both of us!
    2. @Amir Mcm. ~ And you shall overcome. Your present struggle is building up the inner strength that your Future Self will thank you for down the road. If you're going through hell, keep going. Carpe diem my friend.
    3. @Larry ~ You've got it. Well done comrade. You're doing a fantastic job. Savour the victory, and use it as fuel to take yourself to new heights you never thought possible. One life to live!
     
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  10. David Adams

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    @xSolidSnake86 My friend you can do this! Delete that stuff. Do it for yourself most of all but also for the people who love you. Do it for us. Your comrades in the same battle. Here's to our victory!
     
  11. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Drift ~ Savour those moments comrade. And don't forget to have an awesome day! :D
    2. @Anjo ~ This moment is your moment. This time is your time. Face everything, and rise to the occasion. You are a fapstronaut comrade. You can do this. Carpe diem!
     
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  12. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Diamonds ~ You're going great! May you have an awesome day today. Carpe diem!
    2. @BensRecovery ~ Very happy for you bro. NoFap is already changing your life for the better. Keep at it and nothing can hold you back. Be unstoppable and seize the day!
    3. @seth ~ Well done comrade. Never stop growing; there are always things to learn, experiences to gain, and wisdom to be accrued during life's journey. Day 40 is a heck of an achievement. You should be very proud.
     
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  13. seth

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    1- @Golgo 13 ~ I think it's awesome you've relapsed before but always have found your way back to abstaining from porn. I believe in you!
    2 - @ned123 ~ I know this forum is intended for saying something nice to strangers, but I feel you've become my best friend on this forum. I really appreciate all your feedback and your bits of motivation. It's really special, thanks.
    3 - @blhei ~ I admire that you've stayed with NoFap even after relapsing. You've made a great streak and the one relapse does not undo everything! You've accomplished more than many of your friends! Here's to a complete recovery!
     
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    @BushidoWarrior This is a fantastic thread - it reminds me of the movie Pay it Forward. If you haven't seen it it's really entertaining and I highly recommend it.

    One suggestion: perhaps change the title of this thread from "Be a Nice Person challenge" to "Be a Kind Person Challenge". Elliot Hulse explains it best:

     
  15. ned123

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    Ditto buddy! Keep it real brother - all will be well :cool:
     
  16. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @RockHH ~ Just keep on trucking. Let the days go past, and surf the urges when they come. You can do this. Never stop growing, and never stop learning. We all fact the struggle together. Carpe diem brother.
    2. @Mike98 ~ I've done it too. The natural thing is to be self-critical. Try and subvert that tendency and be kind to yourself instead. What would you say to your best friend if they were facing a similair situation to you?
    3. @spartanian ~ Never give up, never surrender. Fall down seven times, get up eight. Never, ever, ever, ever quit. If you're going through hell, keep going. The struggles you are going through today is building the inner strength you will be thankful for tomorrow. Now, go out and seize the day!
     
  17. Another take on this, I love Elliot's perspective on things as well,

     
  18. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @xamuel ~ You got this brother. You will knock it outta the park. Stay mindful, stay vigilant, and don't let the inner excuses away you. You are superior to the cravings that arise and disappear in your awareness. Here's to an awesome day!
    2. @peacefulwarrior ~ That's right. No negative emotional state is permanent. As they say, it too shall pass. The struggles you go through build the inner strength that your Future Self will thank you for. Carpe diem.
    3. @Harts304 ~ Sometimes major relapses are the best thing that ever happened to us, even if it takes hindsight to realise. As Franklin said "I didn't fail 100 times, I merely found 100 ways that didn't work." Here's to a victorious day for both of us!
     
  19. xamuel

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    Thanks brother God bless you
     
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  20. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @goodguy12 ~ You are liberating yourself from PMO addiction forever. Congratulations comrade. Success awaits. We all have your back. Seize the day!
    2. @Argent Star ~ I'm sorry you're suffering. It happens to the best of us comrade. It too shall pass. Try not to be too hard on yourself. Remember, the night is always darkest before the dawn (cheesy, I know).
     
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