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What girls find attractive in guys?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by MrCharacter, Aug 22, 2015.

  1. yoyo1

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    Looks, as in not necessarily model like attractiveness. I think what he is getting at is like hygiene, well groomed and how well dressed he is. Not fake, GQesque, photoshopped men.

    Unfortunately, due to porn and more and more super hero genre movies coming out I have seen many women flocking to Chris Hemsworth, Chris evans, super model physiques. Just like how porn affects us men, other things are affecting women's perceptions too. I don't think to the same degree but, I am noticing it growing particularly in movies.
     
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  2. yoyo1

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    Let me also add though, women generally like v shapped guy. It doesn't mean Captain america but as I said, unfortunately, there are changes in womens perceptions. But still by and large, broad shoulders and wider back (wider than waist). Those two things are not hard to build up quickly, they are if you want to be a body builder or a newer male model who are paid to get that big and that lean.
    Case and point this: http://foxhoundstudio.com/blog/fitn...sique-—-what-girls-want-want-guys-want-to-be/
     
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  3. TheBeachvillain

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    #1. Successfulness
    #2. Confidence
    #3. Physique
    #4. Intelligence
    #5. Funniness

    The rest of the list doesn't even matter at this point if you have these qualities. A girl isn't going to be riding in your Porsche, laughing at your jokes and being turned on by your good looks, but then all of a sudden become uninterested because you aren't mysterious enough lol...
    Most qualities I am seeing mentioned are too specific to be what the average girl is interested in.
     
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  4. Idk, maybe this is just me, but for me, attraction is like... 10% all of these things on these lists and then like 90% personal connection/comfort. I can't tell you how many guys I've fallen crazy hard for who were shy, not particularly successful, not conventionally "attractive," ... Maybe a little nerdy. But for whatever reason, I was just crazy about em. Lol and if any of them had had the guts to ask me out, I would have said "um chyeah!"

    So that's why I say, you can never go wrong with just being yourself and taking a chance here and there.
     
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  5. yoyo1

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    Thanks for consolations!
     
  6. What do you mean?
     
  7. yoyo1

    yoyo1 Guest

    I couldn't come up with another word...thanks for the comfort that us guys just be ourselves and it will work out.
     
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  8. Ah, gotcha. Absolutely! I think that's the best thing for any guy or girl, when it comes to relationships. Cuz if you're not yourself, then whoever you end up won't be a good match. They'll only be a good match for the person you're pretending or trying to be.
     
  9. melancholy king

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    I'm all of those things, I'm not trying to brag or to hit on you or anything, but I would like to question what you say you want as opposed to what you actually want. I have had zero success with women, despite all of those traits you mention, now could I be the exception? possibly. However I have seen all too often complete studs never get anywhere with the opposite gender.

    Why? I think its actually quite simple really. Young women (and men) don't really know what they want yet, and so they end up time and time again going out with mates who don't give them what they really want/need. I believe I read somewhere that older women (in their 50's) were likely to have the best sex of their lives, its because they KNOW what they enjoy sexually later on in life.
     
  10. This is probably true. Hence the reason most people don't marry the first person they ever date. Unless you're my sister, she got lucky there. Lol but yeah, it's trial and error and we're all just learning as we go.
     
  11. programer

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    I find it extremely hard to understand you. How can you then know if someone wants fast or slow things.
     
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  12. Macabre

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    Confidence. You need to take charge. A lot of girls like that. It takes practice. But like takingthesteps, she likes shy guys. So all girls are of course not the same.

    If you want my honest opinion, you need to stop focusing on what will make other girls want you, and more about what you want to do. Be the man you were born to be.
     
  13. ImDaniel

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    Looks like the best advice if you want to fall into a girl's friendzone ;-)
     
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  14. MrCharacter

    MrCharacter Fapstronaut

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    Guys, thanks for all your responses. I haven't been on NoFap for ages! At university and stressful work has lead me back masturbating constantly. On my first go I went 58-60 days of NoFap and ever since trying to get back there. From tomorrow, the adventure of NoFap starts again and need your great support. Once again thank you for y'all responses!!! :) :) :)
     
  15. Is @firdi joking? I really hope he's joking. Please be joking. Lol

    @MrCharacter sorry to hear about your struggles! I'm glad to see you back. I know in my times of weakness, one of my first thoughts is that I should just keep it to myself and stop posting on the forums, but that, as I'm sure you've learned, can be a nasty trap. Get back on that horse, brother!
     
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  16. NoBrainer

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    Isn't it ironic that that a whole bunch of guys are telling other people what women find attractive in men? o_O
     
  17. Hm... No. Definitely not true. Lol as a woman, I think I probably know more about what women want than you do, and your implications of women's superficiality is rather offensive.
     
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  18. Okay, first of all... I never said you didn't have a right to say it. I said I disagreed with it. I'm not a moderator and therefore am not the one who deleted your comment. Nor did I report it. I simply said it was offensive and I disagreed with your statement.

    Secondly, you do not know me, so you might want to steer clear of blanket statements like "you don't know what it feels like to...."
     
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  19. For the sake of kindess, I wil say that I apologize if you felt I was squashing your voice. Tht wasn't my intention. In my original comment, I was legitimately curious if your comment was sincere or sarcasm. I'm a very sarcastic person, but that tends to get misunderstood through text, so I didn't know if that was the case here.

    I don't think it would be beneficial to get in an argument about my views on freedom of speech right now, so I'll just say have a good day and feel free to believe what you believe.
     
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  20. Thank you for the clarification. That sheds a bit more light on the underlying meaning of your post. To me, it came across as implying that women are primal creatures who are completely controlled by those desires and only care about superficial things. For your sake, I was hoping that's not what you think of women (people in general), because they are much more special and precious than that. :)
     
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